Emmaus United Church of Christ, Vienna, Va., December 2005.
Front Page : Outlook

Nice eyes — they may be smilin’; but smilin’ eyes ain’t always nice

RICHMOND, Va. — February’s almost over and I’m almost 25-years-old. Oi!

I’m having a bit of a “what the fuck am I doing here” type of a moment these last couple days. Yes, we’ve been here before, but things have been pretty good lately. This is not what we’ve had before. However, it seems prudent to step back and reassess. People’s lives are like Mack Trucks in a demolition derby. Like a tin full of bait worms. Packed tight. Flesh on flesh struggling for an unknown, a something. It’s a dangerous feeling this, this uncertainty. This dirty humanity.

So, I was digging through some of my old work here, looking for some inspiration, and commiserating with memories and wallet photographs, etc., and then I remembered that I owe you folks an updated life list. This is an old ritual of mine, dating back five years or so now. As much as I admire Jack Nicholson and as much as I love the Morgan Freeman voice, I must confess that I wasn’t thrilled that they partnered up for The Bucket List movie. I didn’t watch the movie and I don’t take credit for the idea (are you crazy?), but I admit that I thought that the importance I put into making my list would be diminished by the popularity of it. I fear the phrase: “Everybody’s doing it.”

But the movie bombed (apparently — I don’t know, like I said: I didn’t watch it. But I also haven’t heard anything about it lately) and now I’m just doing whatever I can do procrastinate delivering this years edition to you.

Just like last time around, the life list will be rolled out in two editions. Two parts. First to the plate is last year’s list. Completed “tasks,” or goals or whatever are marked. Clearly I accomplished, and I quote: “Not so much.”

On deck is the new edition revised and annotated with the latest and greatest. The “what’s on my mind,” not that you care.

Alas:

Education

The color of money

Do by December 31, 2007

In pursuit of women

The hobbyist

On enhanced health

Improving business position

The long-term vision